As you know we live in many countries at the same time, we are constantly traveling. Thus, I have the pleasure to observe mothers from all over the world, from different cultures, nationalities and religions. Breastfeeding is a topic that is as much forgotten due to modern deceptive techniques – bottle and powdered milk, as is a topic that comes back into favor with conscious parents waking up from a dream of forgetting who we are. The awareness of the importance of breastfeeding varies depending on the knowledge passed on from the ancestors in the family, but also on whether the woman took advantage of the help of a doula, who leads the woman in a blessed state and during childbirth, and after childbirth, teaches her how to feed and helps to maintain mental balance so that has not lost food, it also depends on what trends the society of a given country draws from. In Indonesia, to my surprise, I saw and talked to several mothers of several children who did not breastfeed because they said that there is a fashion for carton or powder milk here. They did not wonder that it would have harmful effects in the future, and they have already told me about tooth and bone decay and diet-related diseases. Here in the countryside I also met people who were told about the importance of breastfeeding in their family, and they continue to do so as a matter of course. For poor nations, however, more and more cell phones and supermarket food are signs of a higher social status than the memory of the depths of our original continuum. In Poland, breastfeeding is currently a trend and fashion, but it does not always have a spiritual dimension, mothers feed with telephones next to the baby’s head, do not focus on this task and connection at a given moment during feeding, they are not aware that then they can “talk to the soul ”of a child. In Portugal, it is obvious to breastfeed, any midwife or nurse will tell you that, even hospitals order the mother to feed every 1 hour and check it, they believe that it is an investment in a mentally and physically healthy nation. I approve of it. Both of my children were born in Portugal and I felt really cared for in this country and accepted when I had to take my breast out for breastfeeding everywhere, people accept it and support it. Most truths are in the indigenous peoples and tribes, families that never moved to cities like Indians of North and South America, Hunzu, they have not forgotten what gives them strength and a long healthy life and peace. They still grow their own food, give birth to babies naturally without a hospital, give birth without cutting the umbilical cord, preserve the baby’s placenta, eat healthy, breastfeed babies, are united with the spirit of nature, still understand the laws of nature.I have been breastfeeding my daughter for several years, I have been breastfeeding my son at the same time, sometimes at the same time, sometimes separately. I have a feeling that the correct and warm bond that was built between them, despite the small age difference of 1.5 years, despite the beginning when it was a new situation for my daughter and she reacted like other children, we owe to equal rights and breastfeeding. There is no rivalry between them, because I have not weaned my daughter even for one day during pregnancy or after giving birth to my son. It is not true that you cannot breastfeed your older child by becoming pregnant again. Of course you can. This is a sacrifice for the mother because you have to be with the baby constantly. That’s how nature created it. This is right. Despite self-denial, a mother benefits greatly from breastfeeding. She has better digestion, her hormones are working well, her hair and nails are pretty, and so is her skin. After pregnancy, there are no unnecessary kilograms, the uterus heals better and so are postpartum wounds. For a child, the advantages are also undeniable and scientifically proven, a child who receives food regularly is calm, joyful because he feels safe, he is physically strong because he gets a perfectly selected mixture of nutrients in milk, which, especially in the new times, are difficult to provide in any other way. The first years are the most important for all systems, especially the nervous system and the body. The first 3 years are very important for the baby emotionally, the baby has the right to receive milk on demand. It is very important for his sense of security and belonging to the herd, He must feel that he is loved and in the first place, although during feeding, it is best if he is sometimes naked with his belly to the belly, it builds closeness, direct skin to skin contact. You can also feed on Mother Earth from time to time to acquire ground energy.
Babies who are breastfed and born naturally, preferably lotus, are a sure peace in the world. We should all care about itThese people do not have a low self-esteem, a desire for isolation, or unhealthy behaviors and addictions. They also have a higher feeling and open hearts, which makes them choose wisely in every area of life. Of course, it will not be easy for every mother who got a cesarean section birth imprint from her mother, or who was not breastfed, to breastfeed so easily, like a woman who comes from a family where this sequence was not interrupted, but it is worth returning to feeding even if you have such a past in your childhood because you will reverse the course of the family history and thus help your children have the right models that they will transfer to their future families.
Babies who are breastfed and born naturally, preferably lotus, are a sure peace in the world. We should all care about it.These people do not have a low self-esteem, a desire for isolation, or unhealthy behaviors and addictions. They also have a higher feeling and open hearts, which makes them choose wisely in every area of life. Of course, it will not be easy for every mother who got a cesarean section birth imprint from her mother, or who was not breastfed, to breastfeed so easily, like a woman who comes from a family where this sequence was not interrupted, but it is worth returning to feeding even if you have such a past in your childhood because you will reverse the course of the family history and thus help your children have the right models that they will transfer to their future families.
Babies who are breastfed and born naturally, preferably lotus, are a sure peace in the world. We should all care about it.These people do not have a low self-esteem, a desire for isolation, or unhealthy behaviors and addictions. They also have a higher feeling and open hearts, which makes them choose wisely in every area of life. Of course, it will not be easy for every mother who got a cesarean section birth imprint from her mother, or who was not breastfed, to breastfeed so easily, like a woman who comes from a family where this sequence was not interrupted, but it is worth returning to feeding even if you have such a past in your childhood because you will reverse the course of the family history and thus help your children have the right models that they will transfer to their future families.
Support of the Father and Partner is an extremely important role, because the Mother and the Child must have time to be together after giving birth, the Father at this time, at the beginning of the new child’s journey, should take care of the previous, older children so that the mother has a chance to build a bond with the new child and it helped him to exist harmoniously in the new world. The father and partner also help to feed the baby to the breast at night, sleep is very important to the mother, she should not leave the woman alone. For 1-3 months after giving birth, a man should take a vacation and stay at home because he is genetically the closest person to the child, and because he does not carry the baby in his stomach and does not breastfeed, he must build these relations outside with the baby through activities and care. having a baby physically. It can support a woman in household chores as the body and perineum need time to regenerate.When a lot of milk appears after the baby is born, white cabbage is helpful, you put its leaves in the elastic top for a few hours, then you change the compress, the leaves remove inflammation from the breasts in the milk ducts, you cannot wear bras with stiffening underwires!